The Most Interesting Date Part 4

My 4th date with Mr. Lexus.

To make up for getting Salmonella on our last date, bringing it to an abrupt halt, (from his recent trip to China), mid-way thru the week, he surprised me by getting 5th row tickets to the Amy Schumer SOLD OUT show at the Hard Rock in Ft Lauderdale.  (a couple weeks ago when he was planning our date, he asked if I'd like to see a concert, and while I responded "Yes!"...I also said that I would really just love to see a comedy show...because my favorite thing to do is LAUGH.

Still wasn't really sure of the physical chemistry between me and Mr. Lexus.

He seemed a little nerdy with what I considered a nerdy laugh, during our first 3 dates....like he makes this gargling sound in the back of his throat when he laughs.   I love spending time with this man, and he likes to do such fun things like travel, go to concerts, events... but I'm just not sure I can ever get HOT about a guy who gargles when he laughs or as he pointed out that he really just does that when he is frustrated or unhappy...but he does that often!

I keep reminding myself, though, of times in my life when I didn't fall at first, but over the course of time, fell for a man, after knowing him for a little longer.  Like I said:
                              "there is nothing more irresistible than a man who adores you."

Anyway, I hadn't seen him in a week, and I was missing him.

Looking forward to seeing him again.

Remembering that he is so upbeat and positive.

And even better, as he pointed out:  He likes to "spoil" me.  "SPOIL?"  I said.

Well, I responded, "Who doesn't like to be treated special?"

I asked, "Do I act "spoiled?"

He responded, "No," that I act very thankful, which I am, however,  I guess is extraordinary, he said, of women these days.

I had to remind myself that he is legally married, as he was also telling me that he has to "learn to be single," but also wondered why I had not been more communicative with him this last week.  My response was that I had been "busy."  While at the same time he is telling me that he doesn't think he has "time to have a girlfriend," (WARNING WARNING) he also seemed to be disappointed that I had not text him more, but that if he "WAS going to have a girlfriend, that is the kind of girlfriend" that would be right for him.

First, he sent the car to pick me up at 3:30 pm, as originally planned.  I love it that Mr. Lexus is so punctual.  When I tell him I'll be ready at 3:30, at 3:27pm, he is sending me a message that he is calling the car!

Because of traffic, the ride took about 80 minutes, even though Mr. Lexus tipped the driver extra to drive in the Expressway.  He said, "Only the best for you always."  Mr. Lexus and I had both had forgotten about it being a holiday weekend in South Beach, and traffic being tough to get outa here.  He text me, "Lesson learned."

Trip went quickly, though, and before I knew it, I was sitting next to Mr. Lexus at Big Al's bar, and he was ordering us 2 vodka's (Grey Goose for him and Gluten Free Tito's for me), and some peel and eat shrimp to share.  Then after visiting for a while, I noticed that Mr. Lexus didn't wear his glasses.  He told me that "for you" he wore contact lenses.  Wow, I have to admit.  This made a huge difference in his appearance.  He pointed out that it was like Clark Kent.  Which I have to admit that it was.  I was already feeling more attracted to Mr. Lexus.

He told me a story of a time before he was married, when he had the opportunity to be with one of the girls on his list of "top 5 people" that he would like to be with, if he ever got the chance, and one was a tv personality, but his now "x"(wife) was just his girlfriend then, and she told him that if he DID actually DO her, then he needn't bother ever contacting her again.  Then although, he ended up spending the evening with this then famous person, he remained true to his now "x," which showed me his value as a man.  He is loyal.  Nice, I like that.

After about an hour there, he said that he knew where he was going to take me for dinner.  Mr. Lexus had been unable to get us reservations at any of the fine dining restaurants near the venue at the Hard Rock Casino, but he took me to a place that had all fresh seafood.  With little time to spare, we sat at the bar, and knowing that I don't eat many carbs, he ordered himself, seafood rolls, but me sashimi.  It was terrific!  I could't even finish my serving!  Then we were good to go!!

We drove up to the valet, and were kindly greeted by the same big black valet guy who parked our car in the front last week.  Mr. Lexus tipped him extra to keep his car in front, close...again, and we went straight in to the show.  We were surprised upon entering that they took everyone's cell phone and put it in a pouch, and locked it while they were in the show!  Mr. Lexus noted that if we got separated, he wouldn't be able to reach me. (Picture at the top)

2 comedians talked before Amy, but by far she was the best.  I noticed the wedding ring on her finger before she told the crowd that she was now engaged!  After her show, she announced another comedian, but Mr. Lexus said it was time for us to leave, and that comedian was just to help disperse the crowd from everyone leaving at once.  Though, we were surprised at the small venue, our seats wear right next to the stage.  Mr. Lexus proudly mentioned that he also had great seats for Christina Agulara next month. Hmmm I wondered who would get to go see that show with him.

After the show, Mr. Lexus took me to the Casino bar, that was full, and had  another vodka. (he kept my vodka full all throughout the show too)  I like a guy like this, who is so attentive to making sure that I have everything to be comfortable.  Then a woman, who Mr. Lexus described as his good friend's wife joined us, with a friend of hers, who I noticed also had a ring on her finger.  His friend's wife was dressed like a knock-out, and was very friendly, and told me her story of having teenage kids, and being married for 10 or 20 yrs.

It seemed there always had been some sexual tension in their relationship, Mr. Lexus told me, which had gone undiscussed and not approached, especially with Mr. Lexus' strong friendship with her husband.   However, he ordered us all a round of tequila shots to liven things up!

I like this, possibly because it reminds me of my father.  I like a man who can get the party started!  The tequila quickly switched my drinking plan, and so I had another after the 1st.  Then, I noticed the woman kept asking me how I was getting home.  "How did she know that I wasn't going home with Mr. Lexus?  Or did she not want me to go home with Mr. Lexus??" I wondered.

He had mentioned just before they came up that he really had been wondering what my breasts looked like, as he couldn't even get a glimpse of them in my dress, as he ran his hands over them on the top of my dress!!  Mr Lexus said he still had no idea!!  And would have loved for me to go home with him!!  Also that he loves the way I dress, as he loves a woman who is a "lady in public and a whore in the bedroom."  I was thinking:  I resemble that remark!

Suddenly, though, the party came to an end, when Mr. Lexus called me a car, but continued texting me as I returned to my building, and stopped at the general store at 11:30pm, just before it closed (I never do this), and this morning, I realized that it was because I was dealing with my own sexual frustration, as per the late texts of Mr. Lexus, he was dealing with that in his own way.