Mr Lexus is Back, & Took Me to the HEAT Game!

9:19 AM
Wow.  Good Morning!!
What a great start I had to my staycation last night!!
I woke in the middle of the night, and was unable to go back to sleep, so took some Live Ultimate ELIXIR www.LiveUltimate.com/BeingTracy, and fell back to sleep until 10am this morning!!
SO THANKFUL!!  I woke feeling fabulous!!!

It is a good week, when I feel passionately enough about 3 different days to blog!
Big change from the last month or so!!

So after that horrible date that was my last blog with Jew,
I went to sleep...early.  It was 8pm when I got home.
I was unsettled from this interaction, but at least I knew there would be no more
distressing texts to come in.

When I woke in the middle of the night, I realized that the dilemma with Jew had been
Good Looks vs Character.  While he had been a good looking enough guy,
it was his character that I found unappealing.

So when I woke at 3:30am, looked at my phone and was surprised.
Did it say a text from Mr. Lexus!?
I put the phone down.

UGH I knew this was probably going to wake me up.
Then I realized that I needed to read his text.

If you've been following my blogs, Mr Lexus was someone whom I dated about a year ago.
That short relationship inspired about 5 blogs.

I got up, went to the restroom, then came back to read his message.
What could be up?
I had almost forgotten who he was!!😂

It had been a long time, and I remembered getting a message from him a few months ago.
I think he wanted to get together for a drink or something, but that never happened.

Well, in his message, I just focused on 1 word: "game."
Ok, that could be fun!  I love games!!

So, finally, I got my bearings together to read this old boyfriend's message:

"Hey stranger have you found Prince Charming yet?  Checking on you!  I am meeting friends on their boat tomorrow at 4:30 in Miami Beach before we have dinner and do the Heat vs Lakers game which is a big ticket game.  So with my season tickets these are games I go to. Lol

If you don't have any plans, I would love to catch up and take you the game.  It would be two people getting reacquainted.  Not a pleasant nigh out as friends unless you are seriously seeing someone."
(typos intentional)
I responded, which stimulated a few back and forth texts, as he told me he just returned from the Far East, which screwed with his sleep schedule.  I never got back to sleep after that.

How could I?

The next day, (yesterday), he'd said he would confirm at 2pm.
Mr Lexus called at 1:30 pm to confirm.
Said he'd pick me up at 4-4:30pm said he knew "the drill," and that he would call me as he's heading over and then again 10 minutes before, so I can go down and meet his car.

Mr. Lexus text as he was headed over the MacArthur Causeway that in his Lexus he was going very fast, and that I should go down to meet him.  So, I started down the stairs of my building.  However, I made it just one flight down, and the next text said, "OMG!!  Someone just hit me!!"

I stopped.
Next text: I hate Friday the 13th!!

I text:  Do you need to stop?
He text, "yes, he got sandwiched between 2 cars."

I returned back upstairs to my condo.
The whole time I was thinking:  Is this all just a big ruse!?
Is this his idea of a joke!?
Is it possible he actually got in an accident today?
Does Mr. Lexus REALLY have tickets to the Lakers vs Heat game tonight??

My next text:  "How bad is it?  Send a picture."
Mr. Lexus:  "Bad. I'm dealing with cops."

Fortunately it didn't take long, but after maybe a half hour or 45 minutes, he asked me to meet him at the boat, because his car isn't in good driving condition, and altho he could drive, he didn't want to drive it too far.

GREAT!  The night is still on!
Mr. Lexus had called me and given me the low-down on our evening.
The people who invited us out on their yacht in Miami Beach Harbor were his seat-mates for the Heat games a couple years ago.  Now they sit across the stadium but they had invited him to their "boat" at 200 Alton Rd in South Beach and he was thinking of who he would take to the game with him, and realized that he'd be close to me!

Mr Lexus also told me that this would be a great game as the Lakers 
and the Heat  were at the top of the sport right now!
I was so excited, as I've never been to a pro-basketball game, nor even a basketball game since I used to be a cheerleader in high school!!
Always regretted I never went to a game when I attended Indiana University, and they had such a great basketball team!!!

When we finally met at Mr. Lexus' friends "boat," which was this big yacht 
with a little buoy boat attached to it.  His friends served us shrimp, cocktail sauce and whatever we liked to drink on the upper deck.  After some conversation. We heard about Mr. Lexus crash, that the girl who caused it left the scene, but not until after Mr. Lexus got in her car, closed the door and demanded her documentation, which I thought was genius.  
Also, I heard about the "hot" female cop that showed up, and rushed the report thru after she heard that Mr. Lexus had tickets and was taking a date to the Heat game.

We visited for a short bit, I saw a picture of the pretty young girl that Mr. Lexus just broke up with after 3 months, because she was too "needy," at age 40(?), because her kids were moving out, and she wanted to move in with Mr. Lexus.  They offered me a 2nd drink,  but I declined based on the idea that they affirmed that we'd also be drinking at the game, and I needed something in my stomach.  We missed the dinner that Mr. Lexus had planned, because of the accident.

All was good now.
His Lexus was parked in Monty's parking lot, not far from the boat.
Mr. Lexus showed us the damage, and it was bad, but he, hopefully, may be able to drive it home.
I was HOPING, because he told his friends that he could always stay with me!😬


The car dropped his nice friends, Mr. Lexus and I off near the stadium, so we walked.
Miami was just beautiful.
Mr. Lexus wanted a picture of me walking over taken with his top of the line phone.
He told me of all of his worldly travels, and that his company does all of the security of all of the big buildings in Miami that I could see.
We went thru the security check and then Mr. Lexus wanted to take a selfie of the two of us, as we found our seats in the 24th row right behind the Laker's bench.
 Also heard about his 14 year old beautiful daughter and the strong bond that they have,
and that she was sorry that she was missing the game, but she is traveling, and that
she has never met any of his girlfriends.

I started thinking that I couldn't really relate to his relationship with his daughter.
My daughters are all older, and ready for me to be in a relationship.
My divorce was 10 years ago.
THEY WANT ME TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP.

Mr. Lexus told me that he is taking his daughter to New Orleans to the Ritz there.
"That is the only place that she likes to stay,"
 (I was thinking, SHOOT YEAH, who doesn't like stay at the RITZ...ANYWHERE!!!?)
 and that she has had a hard time with the divorce from her Mom, and I believe he said that his girlfriends also have a hard time with his relationship with his daughter.  I'm sure they do...didn't really sound like a healthy relationship to bring another woman into right now.

Mr Lexus said that he really liked dating me, because I did not put any pressure on him, nor drama.
He asked if I wanted to "try it again" now that he has cleaned up all of the mess from what he was going thru when we were dating.
He said he pays his cleaning lady $70,000 a year😮 to just take care of him in the big house with the pool that I walked thru.
 I also met his spanish cleaning lady, and we had a great rapport, as we spoke spanish to each other.

Mr. Lexus said he needs someone who appreciates him for more than just financial support.
Likes the way that I am a professional woman and don't NEED him.

The whole time we were talking, this awesome game was going on!!
Mr Lexus gave me $50 cash, and asked me to go get us something to eat, as I was starving.
He said he would eat whatever I wanted, and he would re-fill our Vodka/Sodas at the same time!

I came back with a big barrel of popcorn and chicken fingers and waffle fries for both of us!
Mr Lexus said to keep the change, and as my hands were full, I just put it in my bra.

The game was tied, and then the dancers came up in the stands and started the whole crowd cheering.
The stadium was packed!!!

It was a blast!!!

I told Mr. Lexus that I didn't think we should date again.
That I'd like to just be his friend.
I told him that I don't think there is room in his life for another woman right now.

He responded, "Friends with Benefits?"

I said, "well, that isn't really friends...is it?"
He agreed.

But he said, with determination, that he was going to try to change my mind.
Mr. Lexus reminded me of how much fun I used to have going out with him.
He said he knows that I need someone to show me the finer life.

Asked me to just go out with him a few times, and see how I feel.
Asked me to "give him a chance."

I agreed.









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